Tuesday, February 15, 2005

ray of light

Question:
how do you know when you are "officially" over someone? someone who you thought was your everything?
Answer:
when you start seeing men again.
i don't mean seeing, as in dating. i mean seeing, as in noticing them. i'm not talking about the really hot mailman, whom everyone on our street drools over. men like that are noticed all the time.
i am talking about your standard, everyday, "normal" man. you notice him and think, "hmmm, he's not bad looking. wonder if he's single."

yep, i made it!
i am ready to dive right back into the dating pool again. albeit, a little more jaded, a little more cautious.
of course, here in south florida, the dating pool is pretty empty. there is a saying here that all of the men are 'nearly dead or newly wed'.
maybe i should expand my horizons?

well, that was my startling revelation for today. on to a more shallow subject....

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CRUISE WATCH....T-3 days

i am FINALLY finished shopping! i have everything (hopefully) that i will need. i have enough shoes to make imelda marcos envious - the names are like a list of "who's who" in the shoe-world; i have Jimmy Choo, Manolo Blahnik, and Burberry. the dresses are just as impressive, BCBG, Armani, Lilly Pulitzer. i won't even list the purses, make-up, or jewelry.

my tan is near perfect. my diet is incredible. so incredible, in fact, that some of the clothes that i had initially bought for the cruise is too large now.
tonight, dinner with the guys we are cruising with (for last minute stuff), tomorrow i get my nails done and thursday my hair.

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i have figured out some of the reasons why i love gay men so much:
1. they know why you can't possibly go on a 3 day cruise with less than 3 pieces of luggage each.
2. they know the significance of "bloomingdales 15% off sale".
3. they know who jimmy choo & manolo blahnik are.
4. when talking about the 'miami heat' being on the cruise with us, one replied, "oh, i don't know too much about baseball."
5. they don't judge you, when you tell them your sexual kinks. in fact, they compare with you.


i probably won't be blogging again until after the cruise....

~Luv

song lyric of the day:
"love is a bird, she needs to fly. let all the hurt inside of you die."

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